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Each year a number of
referees--mostly our younger referees--drop out due to the criticism and
abuse they receive from fans and/or coaches. Yes, even here in Tiburon.
Why? For any of us who have stood along the
sidelines, the answer is easy: Coaches and parents try to get an edge by
"influencing" the referees; and, just as often, many parents and some
coaches simply don't understand the rules of soccer.
By the
end of the season, there are games where there is simply no available
referee...
We all know in our hearts that this is a game for our kids, not for us. How
we act on the field becomes the model for what our children learn and for
the adults that they become.
The TPSC Codes of
Conduct describe not only what we expect of our players, coaches and
fans, but what we think defines good sportsmanship. Whether mistakes are
made or not, calls are not to be questioned out loud or influenced and a
referee's impartiality is not to be assailed. Period.
Coaches and Parents should review the District
V regulations 3:10:19
incorporated in our Coaches' Code regarding behavior toward referees. The
District and the TPSC take these very seriously. Red cards issued to coaches
or parents for violations of these rules will be subject to action by the
club, the District or both.
While our coaches are held responsible for
their actions and the actions of their team's fans, it's really up to all of
us to make soccer a positive experience for our children, their
opponents, coaches, fans and those of our neighbors who give of their time
to officiate these games. Without them there would be no game.
Let's have fun out there!
Sportsmanship Page
Do you
know the rules?
Is it a handball? Are you
sure?
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